Dating Abuse

You are not stupid.

You are not a punching bag.

You are not dependent on anyone but yourself.

You are not his cure.

You are not inferior.

You are not alone.

Dating abuse which is also known as dating violence is defined as the perpetration or threat of an act of violence by at least one member of an unmarried couple on the other member within the context of dating or courtship. It is also when one partner tries to maintain power and control over the other through violence. This abuse/violence can take a number of forms: sexual assault, sexual harassment, threats, physical violence, verbal, mental, or emotional abuse, social sabotage, and stalking. It can include psychological abuse, emotional blackmail, sexual abuse, physical abuse and psychological manipulation.

Love is not abuse.!!!

Break the cycle..!!!!

What can you do?
» Do not suffer in silence. Tell your friend, parent, teacher or counselor.

» Make sure you are safe if the relationship is physically abusive, but definitely end it.

» Make healthy choices before getting into a relationship.

» Be aware of and do not ignore danger signals.

» Do not blame yourself or feel guilty. It is not your fault. The abuser is the only one responsible for the violence.

What can parents do?
Educate yourself about the consequences of abusive relationships. Remember that as the guardian, you need to model respectful behavior in relationships. Look out for warning signs of abuse in your teen. Be supportive and help her/him end the abusive relationship in a safe way. Parents, school and college authorities should develop strategies to protect teens from dating violence as well as model and promote positive and healthy relationships.