Monday, 26 March 2018

ISOLATION- Husband's Dominance


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I wonder why I am?
 Where I am in my life? 
Why I want MADNESS and DISTORTION ?
 Why I enjoy the pain of  depression and isolation?
 Am I addicted?
 If so.
 Then to what?


Isolation is a form of abuse often closely connected to controlling behaviors. It is not an isolated behavior, but the outcome of many kinds of abusive behaviors. By keeping her from seeing who she wants to see, doing what she wants to do, setting and meeting goals, and controlling how she thinks and feels, he is isolating her from the resources (personal and public) which may help her to leave the relationship. By keeping the victim socially isolated the batterer is keeping her from contact with the world which might not reinforce his perceptions and beliefs. Isolation often begins as an expression of his love for her with statements like if you really loved me you would want to spend time with me, not your family. As it progresses, the isolation expands, limiting or excluding her contact with anyone but the batterer. Eventually, she is left totally alone and without the internal and external resources to change her life.

A message to all the Women reading this :
You are confined only by the walls you build yourself....

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